"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question On Sexual Potency

BigDave

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So we know that high temperatures on your nuts is bad for your sperm count. Does this mean that placing them in cold water etc for lower temperatures will increase your sperm count? and what if sperm count goes up? does this increase drive?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Batman407

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if you wanna put your berries in a bowl of cold water then by all means knock yourself out.
 

golf299

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im gonna have to disagree with your scientific analysis. what you said is the same as saying that drinking milk on a hot day makes it curdle in your stomach...a totally erroneous assumption. your body maintains a constant state of homeostasis...that means that your body temperature is regulated to be as constant as possible. also, mammalian ananotomy has developed in a way that is most beneficial to us....since your crotch area is generally the warmest place on your body at any given time, if anything, the warmth acts as a sort of 'incubater" for the sperm to live and thrive.
 

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The Real Deal On Sperm

Hey all,

- ideal development for sperm is a few degrees lower than body temperature

- the muscles of your scrotum will contract or relax depending upon external temperature, moving your testes closer or furthur away from your body in order to keep the testes at the correct constant temperature

- this means no worries for you under usual circumstances

- if you wear tight underwear your testes are held too close to your body and your sperm count will decrease due to high temperature related complications (the sperm will have trouble maturing)

- if you subject your testes to unusually cold temperatures (such as *prolonged* exposure to cold water) the same thing will happen

- it's not a matter of cold is better, but of maintaining the *correct* temperature

- sperm count has nothing to do with sex drive, that job is performed mostly by testosterone

- testosterone IS produced by the testes, so it *could* be possible for testes at the wrong temperature to function less than optimal and reduce testosterone production... but I've never heard of anything like that before (I'm quite certain, if you would like my explanation I'll provide it)

- I think testosterone production is less dependent on temperature than sperm maturation

- HV
 

golf299

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this topic is effectively moot. i mean, you have millions of sperm. all it takes is one to do the job. any loss will be inconsequential.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BigDave

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i have heard that hot baths can reduce your sperm count. This is why i ask. Apparently if you want to remain sexually potent and not have any problems in later life, hot baths are not a good idea...
 

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You have enough sperm to impregnate the entire planet several times so what is a hundred million here and there and after all you only need one. I would more worry about them being active and resiliant more than about the numbers. A good diet rich in protein and free of junk tends to increase their potency.
 

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how do you increase your testosterone levels? I reckon my sex drive has dropped a lot over the last couple of years.
 

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Stop wanking (masturbating if that gets sensored)
 

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A way to raise your sperm count in the short term is to heat the testes to and then cool them.
This causes sperm count to spike.

As for sperm count being unimportant that is a myth, sperm count is extremly important, as the female reproductive system is designed so that only the males with the "fittest" reproductive system gain the prize (passing on their genes). a low sperm count makes it almost impossible for enough sperm to reach a point in the fallopian tubes to fertilise the egg (i was informed in a lecture that in a normal male maybe 10 sperm make it) so if your sperm count is one tenth normal = 1 sperm one one hundredth = 0.1 sperm and so on.
Cheers
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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