"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Question on qualifying

wildchild

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When you qualify a girl and she passes, should you tell her shes passed by giving her a phrase like "Good thats 10 brownie points for you"? Or just keep quiet. For example if you say "are you a good cook" and she says "yes i make excellent pasta dishes" Should you be like "I love a girl who can cook" or should you remain quiet about it? Basicly what im saying is, should you give a girl an IOI after she qualfies herself?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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realsmoothie

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Man, that's overanalyzing. I mean, the brownie point thing is kind of c&f, surely, but I wouldn't use that as a general rule.

You're not interviewing these girls out loud, are you?
 

Charm&Style

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for the cooking you could just use some c&f and been like

"good...you can cook my lunch breakfast and dinner tomrw..."
 

wildchild

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I dont think its over over analyzing, any more input?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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