When you qualify a girl and she passes, should you tell her shes passed by giving her a phrase like "Good thats 10 brownie points for you"? Or just keep quiet. For example if you say "are you a good cook" and she says "yes i make excellent pasta dishes" Should you be like "I love a girl who can cook" or should you remain quiet about it? Basicly what im saying is, should you give a girl an IOI after she qualfies herself?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Question on qualifying
- Thread starter wildchild
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