ok, this is more of a "trying to understand what the hell is going on" question than a "looking for help" question. here's what happened -
- i ran into this girl that i had known a long time back
- asked her out for a drink to catch up
- i payed because i am a nice kid
- later on, asked her out again for drinks on a weeknight
- she wanted to pay for both of us this time, but i payed again simply because i was the one asking her to hang out and i felt guilty getting paid for when i suggested it
- later on, there's this opera in the park i wanted to check out, so i asked her to come along (since you can't ask a guy to that sorta thing)
- she was up for it, but had to work late. so, she suggests dinner and picks a place
- after dinner, she insists on paying, and i let her
so, here's the question...in this scenario....did she pay because -
a. she is interested in me
b. she wants to 'even it up' and make it clear to me we are friends
a or b????
- i ran into this girl that i had known a long time back
- asked her out for a drink to catch up
- i payed because i am a nice kid
- later on, asked her out again for drinks on a weeknight
- she wanted to pay for both of us this time, but i payed again simply because i was the one asking her to hang out and i felt guilty getting paid for when i suggested it
- later on, there's this opera in the park i wanted to check out, so i asked her to come along (since you can't ask a guy to that sorta thing)
- she was up for it, but had to work late. so, she suggests dinner and picks a place
- after dinner, she insists on paying, and i let her
so, here's the question...in this scenario....did she pay because -
a. she is interested in me
b. she wants to 'even it up' and make it clear to me we are friends
a or b????