"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Question on looking cut

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I'm kind of cut... i have a six pack (it's not big but it's there) it's covered though by a thin layer of fat. so it's not as hard or toned as i'd like it. WEll in a couple of montsh i'm going to be in this pageant thing for fun at school, and one of the events is a swimsuit contest. I am already doing 50 crunches a night, but i have no access to a gym. I heard taht not drinking water will make it show a little better, and make it look more defined

My question is... how can i get my abs to look their best (i have about a month and 2 weeks) and if i do that no water thing, will it really make a difference, and when should i stop drinking water to get the best effect?

Thx
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bfl

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my friend water is the most important thing in fitness
 

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no no no, dont stop drinking water, drink more. what hes talking about is water weight. but its like a fat person that dries to lose wieight by eating only one meal a day. hes gonna gain more weight because his body is going to start saving fat because it knows hes not eating much.
 

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You could take a diuretic before your contest to remove excess water from your body. It will make you piss it all out.

I would recommend running a search on google for bodybuilding pre-contest training to get some other ideas, there are many many things you can do to help you look "cut", some more extreme than others of course. Goodluck.
 
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Originally posted by FitnessGuy
You could take a diuretic before your contest to remove excess water from your body. It will make you piss it all out.

I would recommend running a search on google for bodybuilding pre-contest training to get some other ideas, there are many many things you can do to help you look "cut", some more extreme than others of course. Goodluck.
Dude, the kid doesn't sound like he has any idea what the hell he's talking about and you're telling him to go on diuretics??

Hey random - here's an idea. GO ON A DIET! LOOK AT THE CUTTING GUIDE STICKY AT THE TOP OF THE PAGE.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's Potassium that those bodybuilder dudes take a couple days before their competitions, to get all the excess water out of their bodies.
Did you guys watch that True Life on MTV called "I want the perfect body" and they followed around that amateur bodybuilder guy? It was pretty interesting. That dude was dedicated.
 
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Abs are built in the kitchen.

I would recommend doing a keno diet and add HIIT 3x/week. The biggest most defined abs in the world are invisible if there's an inch of bodyfat covering them.

Also, don't train your abs every day. They should be treated just like every other muscle group for better results -- in other words, they need rest time to grow, as well.

Look up ab boot camp on t-mag.com as well. Extremely brutal, yet very effective in a short period of time.

As for keno and HIIT... if you're not familiar with those terms, just look them up on bodybuilding.com or Google them.
 

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Originally posted by Apostle In Triumph
As for keno and HIIT... if you're not familiar with those terms, just look them up on bodybuilding.com or Google them.
I think you mean keto diet, for ketogenic diet? or is this something different
 
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Did I say keno? I've been reading this website too much. :p Yes, I meant keto. Thanks for catching that.

The keno diet would require you to touch everything you eat, making it horny and uh, less fattening.
 
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