"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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punkrockpylot

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ok, ive known this girl for a little over a year and weve been good friends since day one...i never noticed until now that i had been using adveanced DJ skills on her since then also...back when i was a super afc...

anyway...we always talk and a lot of times the discussions get pretty sexual...anyway she lives about 3 hours away right now (keeping me a challenge and a mystery) but in the fall i will be moving to college...about 20 minutes from her...

the question is...how does everyone feel about having sex with/treating good friends as if they were a girlfriend? does it ruin the friendship, or does it work out ok?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thers nothing wrong with dating after being friends for a long time. i've dated one of my closest friends, we broke up but are still close. i'd say go for it.
i would be careful and take it slow with the sex though. sex is a dangerous thing when theres feelings involved and you could quite easily end up losing your friend completely if the whole dating thing doesnt work out. i really think that part of the reason i didnt lose that one friend is that when we dated, we werent bangin. whatever you do, good luck!
-meagan
 
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It depends on how receptive the girl is to your sexual advances. If she has feelings for you, then all should work out ok. If not (which is generally the case in long-term male/female friendships, i.e. Friendzone) then you will make your relationship very awkward.

Proceed at your own risk.
 
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wow i dont think ive ever seen a woman on these boards...EVER...

thanx for the advice though...
 
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I've seen two(?) women here. So far, at least. o_O Maybe they are spies...

...or lesbians. ^_^ Yes...lesbians...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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