Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Question on decent/nice guy.

crash11

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I was talking to a girl friend of mine and she said that I was a decent guy. I asked what is the difference between decent/nice guy and she said that the nice guy is the one to get walked all over on. What do you guys think?


Thanks in advanced.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Rev

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Life is too short to analyze every word that comes out of a girl's mouth.

My answer: who cares what "decent" or "nice" means when a girl says it.
 

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Be nice, but be yourself, be confident, and most of all have fun above all else.

Sometimes getting shot down can be good for laughs later, especially if some of your buddies saw it all... plus it'll never lower the opinion of a good friend :)

Nice guy can work, as long as you're not "submissive wussy guy" instead.
 

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Originally posted by crash11
What do you guys think?
What is there to think? Good for you I guess...
 

Vincent

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Decent > Bad

So I guess that means its good :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scrumtulescence

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Wait, good isn't bad? But bad is good? Or is bad good, or is bad bad? I thought bad was good. Now wtf is decent? AHHH
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Wait, good isn't bad? But bad is good? Or is bad good, or is bad bad? I thought bad was good. Now wtf is decent? AHHH
You sir, get a cookie.
 

skeeloo

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i swear guys need to stop taking things these women say to heart like.. a poster already stated lifes too short stop analysing everything a girls says damn it.:mad:
 

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Decent means you're a gentleman. Ok, case closed.
 

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Originally posted by m4a1
Decent means you're a gentleman. Ok, case closed.
Now, gentleman I can accept. I didn't mean to confuse anyone with this post. I just never thought of what decent meant before. In my younger days I would've never given a ***k.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Decent in womanspeak means that you're on ok guy for someone else, but not for her.
 

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blah blah blah, who gives a **** what she says. I want a decent girl. I want a slutty girl. I want a nerdy girl. Frankly I don't care. I just want someone that likes being around me and I think that's what a girl wants too.

Oh yah attraction helps too.
 

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If she's going out with you it's a compliment. If you aren't it's either she really likes you or sleeping with you would be like sleeping with her pug.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by MsThang
If she's going out with you it's a compliment. If you aren't it's either she really likes you or sleeping with you would be like sleeping with her pug.
Way to narrow that one down, MsThang.
 

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The fact that you care so much about the definition of the word "decent" lets us all know what kind of guy you REALLY are...insecure. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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