"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Question on Awareness Radius

M

Mission

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 3, 2006
Messages
267
Reaction score
12
Hey all,

I recently read an article about awareness radius on mASF, I learned about it through a post that was just made on this site. However I found that it was very difficult to understand the core of awareness radius, I get the idea of shrinking your own, and having most things be known as "ignore" on your AR. What I am wondering, is how do you control your AR, how should I think about things day to day in my AR, what are some good exercises to practice controlling your AR and understanding exactly how it works, and how to influence other AR's so that people are aware of you and and want to be involved in your AR.

--Mission
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

G

Gubby

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2005
Messages
601
Reaction score
18
Age
36
Location
Spain
I think AR is a bit dumbass actually. There is internal focus/ external focus, whether you're stuck in your head daydreaming or in the real world (the latter is better) also known as mindfulness: check my recent post of that name.

Other than that, if you're bored your focus is going to wander. I'm for pretty much 100% natural game myself so I'd say don't try and force yourself, if you're not interested in the convo that's something to chew on huh ;) Focus on having fun and enjoying yourself.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top