"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mission

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Hey all,

I recently read an article about awareness radius on mASF, I learned about it through a post that was just made on this site. However I found that it was very difficult to understand the core of awareness radius, I get the idea of shrinking your own, and having most things be known as "ignore" on your AR. What I am wondering, is how do you control your AR, how should I think about things day to day in my AR, what are some good exercises to practice controlling your AR and understanding exactly how it works, and how to influence other AR's so that people are aware of you and and want to be involved in your AR.

--Mission
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think AR is a bit dumbass actually. There is internal focus/ external focus, whether you're stuck in your head daydreaming or in the real world (the latter is better) also known as mindfulness: check my recent post of that name.

Other than that, if you're bored your focus is going to wander. I'm for pretty much 100% natural game myself so I'd say don't try and force yourself, if you're not interested in the convo that's something to chew on huh ;) Focus on having fun and enjoying yourself.
 
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