"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Question on Awareness Radius

Mission

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Hey all,

I recently read an article about awareness radius on mASF, I learned about it through a post that was just made on this site. However I found that it was very difficult to understand the core of awareness radius, I get the idea of shrinking your own, and having most things be known as "ignore" on your AR. What I am wondering, is how do you control your AR, how should I think about things day to day in my AR, what are some good exercises to practice controlling your AR and understanding exactly how it works, and how to influence other AR's so that people are aware of you and and want to be involved in your AR.

--Mission
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gubby

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I think AR is a bit dumbass actually. There is internal focus/ external focus, whether you're stuck in your head daydreaming or in the real world (the latter is better) also known as mindfulness: check my recent post of that name.

Other than that, if you're bored your focus is going to wander. I'm for pretty much 100% natural game myself so I'd say don't try and force yourself, if you're not interested in the convo that's something to chew on huh ;) Focus on having fun and enjoying yourself.
 
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