"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question on Approaches

Rodge

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Yeah, a lot of the stuff on the main site say that you should wait until the girl looks at you to approach. How important is this? Can't I just walk up to the girl and start up talking without it? I know, I'm impatient.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ready123

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of course you can

go up and talk to her. assume rapport when you do it

whatever advice you read was probably written by a validation-seeking pvssy
 
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user43770

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You can approach a girl any time you'd like, but it's easier to approach after the initial eye contact.

Ideally, you would make eye contact, smile, then approach.
 
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