"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question on Approaches

Rodge

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Yeah, a lot of the stuff on the main site say that you should wait until the girl looks at you to approach. How important is this? Can't I just walk up to the girl and start up talking without it? I know, I'm impatient.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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ready123

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of course you can

go up and talk to her. assume rapport when you do it

whatever advice you read was probably written by a validation-seeking pvssy
 
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user43770

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You can approach a girl any time you'd like, but it's easier to approach after the initial eye contact.

Ideally, you would make eye contact, smile, then approach.
 
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