Tenacity
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Well, with the engine again, I'm not really that concerned with that because I didn't see the justification for spending $13k more for a V8 other than the sound.1. Why do you care what your engine sounds like to other people?
2. Why do you care what others think about your choosing a V6 vs a V8?
3. What perceived need are you trying to fulfill by seeking/gaining the approval of others with the sound of your engine?
4. What perceived need are you trying to fulfill by seeking/gaining the approval of others with the size of your engine?
Now, I do like the V8 sound, I like the muscle car sound, that's why I'm adding the MRTv2 to get a more muscle sound rather than the stock sound.
In terms of why do I care about what others think about my car and what need am I seeking to fulfilling by gaining the approval of others based on it....well....it's like this.
I'm fully aware that you can get women without having flashy cars, money and a 6 pack, I'm fully aware of this. But having those three things helps you to attract MORE women and attract them more efficiently. In addition, you live a much better and enjoyable life having those three things than not having them. PLUS, I do have a ego and I like to be THE SHYT.
I realize this and I seek out things like flashy cars, my 6 pack, and making more money based on it. Am I shallow? I guess, depending on how you perceive it. In my opinion, I'm just supplying to the market certain values that they find attractive WHILE enjoying my life at the same time.
Again, why does a woman wear makeup? Why does a woman wear body squeeze under her dress to suck some of her fat in? She's doing it because MEN find women with pretty faces and thinner bodies as more attractive than women without them. I'm technically doing the same thing WHILE enjoying life with the car, 6 pack and money at the same time.
- Answer to Number 5 is I care about image to a certain extent. I know it's COOL to say, "I don't give a fvck what anybody thinks" but if that were really the truth, nobody would do 90% of the things they do. Let's keep it real. We all care what certain people think, you can't please everybody but let's keep it real....we ALL seek to please SOMEBODY.5. What perceived need are you trying to fulfill by seeking/gaining the approval of others most often?
6. What matters more to you, how you feel about you and your life, or how your family feels/thinks about you and your life?
7. What matters more to you, how you feel about you and your life, or how men you respect feel/think about you and your life?
8. What matters more to you, how you feel about you and your life, or how black women feel/think about you and your life?
- Answer to Numbers 6, 7, and 8 is it's a combination. I really don't have guy friends like that, other than guys I do business with, but I still want to maintain a particular IMAGE with guys in general to where they see me and see value. Same with my family and same with women. Out of all three of these, women are the MOST important because I stand to gain something from them which is sex and companionship. The reason I choose not to keep guy friends is because I have NOTHING to gain from them. I really have nothing to gain from family members either.