"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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question of of ur past gfs what to say

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i'm a single guy right 24 and in dec i will be 25, never had a gf or dated. dated this girl well kind of but was never attracted to her since she was a very big fat girl-just went out as freinds, we no longer keep in contact. i guess she was easy b/c she was a big girl and not many guys went after her .
my problem is this how do u tell a girl-when the topic of ur past gfs and why it ended arises that yea that ur in the mid or maybe later 20's that ah yea i never had a gf or dated , i now some women can tell just by ur body language-shy, nervous, can;t kiss, bad at sex....i mean u can lie but i think most women are smart and they can tell.
so what do u say, and would they look down on u for being such a late late late bloomer.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You dont have to lie, but you dont have to tell the truth either. Say something C&F then direct the convo in a direction that you want it to go.
 
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yeah have a mysterious past like remington steel, women dig that. you shuldn be talkin bout this shyt til you fvcked her anyway and by then she'll decide if shes gonna stick around based on that.
 
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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You dont have to lie, but you dont have to tell the truth either. Say something C&F then direct the convo in a direction that you want it to go.
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what is C&F????
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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