"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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question of of ur past gfs what to say

joe45

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i'm a single guy right 24 and in dec i will be 25, never had a gf or dated. dated this girl well kind of but was never attracted to her since she was a very big fat girl-just went out as freinds, we no longer keep in contact. i guess she was easy b/c she was a big girl and not many guys went after her .
my problem is this how do u tell a girl-when the topic of ur past gfs and why it ended arises that yea that ur in the mid or maybe later 20's that ah yea i never had a gf or dated , i now some women can tell just by ur body language-shy, nervous, can;t kiss, bad at sex....i mean u can lie but i think most women are smart and they can tell.
so what do u say, and would they look down on u for being such a late late late bloomer.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You dont have to lie, but you dont have to tell the truth either. Say something C&F then direct the convo in a direction that you want it to go.
 
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yeah have a mysterious past like remington steel, women dig that. you shuldn be talkin bout this shyt til you fvcked her anyway and by then she'll decide if shes gonna stick around based on that.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You dont have to lie, but you dont have to tell the truth either. Say something C&F then direct the convo in a direction that you want it to go.
what is C&F????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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