"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey all, hows life?

Anyway, me and a girl are on pretty bad terms as of right now. Shes kinda overreacting and what not...whole scenario is too much to go into and i dont feel like explaining it haha...Anyway, when we did have something going on, i went to her house and my ID fell out of my pants pocket and now she has it. She told me she had it before things went bad, but i never got around to getting it back. When things did go bad, she told me to expect it in the mail :rolleyes: its been over a week now, and still the ID hasnt shown up via mail. It is possible that she has forgotten my address and is unable to send it, or that she mailed it to the wrong address, or that it just hasnt arrived yet, or even that shes just mad and threw it away on me heh. I would like it back though, so i was wondering since we're not talking to one another and such whether or not i should call her and ask what the situation is on it and whether or not she sent it in the mail.

.....Maybe she's not sending it on purpose so that i will call :p
not going to happen haha.

She thinks i did something wrong to her so if i call she'll probably think im trying to fix the situation with her... Realistically i didnt though....if you want details just look up other recent posts by me.

ALSO, this same girl's birthday is coming up :p , and i was gonna call her on the day just to wish her a happy birthday, not to say anything else, like about what happened for example. It's just gonna be to say Happy Birthday haha...


Any thoughts on either question? Let me know.

Much appreciated:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In this kind of situation, i'd text her. Wouldn't have to talk to her.
 
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Do you want your ID back or your girl back?

If all you want is your ID, text her or call her ass up and get your it. You don't need to try to play hard to get if she stole your damn ID.

If you do want to make ammends, don't text her, call her up. Or even better, talk to her in person. I don't know what you did, but from what you said, I would bet you my protein shake money that she's really just looking for attention.

Anyway, for me, the priority would be to get that ID back, and in my opinion, you should steer away from the drama and move on.
 
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thanks guys...yes i WOULD like to get the girl back. But you're right, she's probably doing it for attention.

However it wouldnt be the first time ive tried to fix things...

Anything else guys??

much appreciated.:)
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dude, don't take this shyt from this bytch!!! Call her up and command her to give the fwcking ID back!! Don't tolerate her antics!! Gah!
 
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Originally posted by Walking Anomaly
And any thoughts on the Birthday situation??
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You can call her; only if you get your ID back. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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