"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey all, hows life?

Anyway, me and a girl are on pretty bad terms as of right now. Shes kinda overreacting and what not...whole scenario is too much to go into and i dont feel like explaining it haha...Anyway, when we did have something going on, i went to her house and my ID fell out of my pants pocket and now she has it. She told me she had it before things went bad, but i never got around to getting it back. When things did go bad, she told me to expect it in the mail :rolleyes: its been over a week now, and still the ID hasnt shown up via mail. It is possible that she has forgotten my address and is unable to send it, or that she mailed it to the wrong address, or that it just hasnt arrived yet, or even that shes just mad and threw it away on me heh. I would like it back though, so i was wondering since we're not talking to one another and such whether or not i should call her and ask what the situation is on it and whether or not she sent it in the mail.

.....Maybe she's not sending it on purpose so that i will call :p
not going to happen haha.

She thinks i did something wrong to her so if i call she'll probably think im trying to fix the situation with her... Realistically i didnt though....if you want details just look up other recent posts by me.

ALSO, this same girl's birthday is coming up :p , and i was gonna call her on the day just to wish her a happy birthday, not to say anything else, like about what happened for example. It's just gonna be to say Happy Birthday haha...


Any thoughts on either question? Let me know.

Much appreciated:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In this kind of situation, i'd text her. Wouldn't have to talk to her.
 
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Do you want your ID back or your girl back?

If all you want is your ID, text her or call her ass up and get your it. You don't need to try to play hard to get if she stole your damn ID.

If you do want to make ammends, don't text her, call her up. Or even better, talk to her in person. I don't know what you did, but from what you said, I would bet you my protein shake money that she's really just looking for attention.

Anyway, for me, the priority would be to get that ID back, and in my opinion, you should steer away from the drama and move on.
 
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thanks guys...yes i WOULD like to get the girl back. But you're right, she's probably doing it for attention.

However it wouldnt be the first time ive tried to fix things...

Anything else guys??

much appreciated.:)
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dude, don't take this shyt from this bytch!!! Call her up and command her to give the fwcking ID back!! Don't tolerate her antics!! Gah!
 
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Originally posted by Walking Anomaly
And any thoughts on the Birthday situation??
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You can call her; only if you get your ID back. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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