Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Question - Kiss closing the first meeting?

zzeitgeist

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Hi Guys,

I have a quick question.. do you normally try to kiss close a chick you just recently met on your first outting..?

You met her at a party, you got her facebook, you set up a time to chill and for example went to a movie... would you try to kiss close or wait till second outing?

I was thinking that maybe something like a hug and CHEEK kiss would be something that might work and feel less awkward on a first date but set the frame that your going to be escalating things for your next date... I know it sounds a little AFC but I been thinking about this and well if done right its so innoncent yet gets her thinking and basicly if after that she still wanting to see you again you know your in... or maybe just the kiss close in the first place... I dunno, this is why I am asking.

Also this would be done with a lot of confidence and not in some sort of AFC fashion where your looking all awkward like you just shat your pants...

thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Sperminator

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Well I don't always kiss close on the first date but I do act sexual and do a lot of kino. But if the moment or mood is right go for it if not wait until the second date.
 

saber

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she wants to be kissed...that chick is gonna dump u if she aint getting some play
 

zzeitgeist

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ok good. I definitely think it sets the tone without being overly aggressive.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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