"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Question - Kiss closing the first meeting?

zzeitgeist

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Hi Guys,

I have a quick question.. do you normally try to kiss close a chick you just recently met on your first outting..?

You met her at a party, you got her facebook, you set up a time to chill and for example went to a movie... would you try to kiss close or wait till second outing?

I was thinking that maybe something like a hug and CHEEK kiss would be something that might work and feel less awkward on a first date but set the frame that your going to be escalating things for your next date... I know it sounds a little AFC but I been thinking about this and well if done right its so innoncent yet gets her thinking and basicly if after that she still wanting to see you again you know your in... or maybe just the kiss close in the first place... I dunno, this is why I am asking.

Also this would be done with a lot of confidence and not in some sort of AFC fashion where your looking all awkward like you just shat your pants...

thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Sperminator

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Well I don't always kiss close on the first date but I do act sexual and do a lot of kino. But if the moment or mood is right go for it if not wait until the second date.
 

saber

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she wants to be kissed...that chick is gonna dump u if she aint getting some play
 

zzeitgeist

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ok good. I definitely think it sets the tone without being overly aggressive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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