"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question - Kiss closing the first meeting?

zzeitgeist

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Hi Guys,

I have a quick question.. do you normally try to kiss close a chick you just recently met on your first outting..?

You met her at a party, you got her facebook, you set up a time to chill and for example went to a movie... would you try to kiss close or wait till second outing?

I was thinking that maybe something like a hug and CHEEK kiss would be something that might work and feel less awkward on a first date but set the frame that your going to be escalating things for your next date... I know it sounds a little AFC but I been thinking about this and well if done right its so innoncent yet gets her thinking and basicly if after that she still wanting to see you again you know your in... or maybe just the kiss close in the first place... I dunno, this is why I am asking.

Also this would be done with a lot of confidence and not in some sort of AFC fashion where your looking all awkward like you just shat your pants...

thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Sperminator

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Well I don't always kiss close on the first date but I do act sexual and do a lot of kino. But if the moment or mood is right go for it if not wait until the second date.
 

saber

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she wants to be kissed...that chick is gonna dump u if she aint getting some play
 

zzeitgeist

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ok good. I definitely think it sets the tone without being overly aggressive.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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