"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cave dweller

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A question here....

Why in the hell would an 'ex' want to be 'friends'?

All I want to do is forget the bytch and move on........

She wants to be my 'friend'.

Any comments?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She dumped him. How many dumpees do you know that want to be friends? Girls always want to be friends after they dump a guy so they don't feel bad for hurting his feelings. Women are all about taking care of number one, they just describe it as caring for your feelings but in the end, they are really taking care of their own subconscious.
 

Chosen1

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my sister wants to be friends with a lot of dudes too who want nothing to do with her after their done i think it is a sex thing personally if you think that women are taking care of number 1 then you're probably right because i'm willing to bet that no girl has stayed up at night fantazing about me while i'm fantasing about them
 

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On the contrary, I bet this guy dumped her. When you dump a girl and she comes back later saying let's be friends, in ******** language that means "Let's play around a little more." This happend to me with my ex-gf not too long ago. Basically ended up going back and banging her which was a huge mistake cause she got attatched once again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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