"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Question for your DJs

oscarxp25

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I started dating this girl recently. She is pretty cool though a bit attached. Whenever she comes over to my house she is always nice to my dad, who is in a wheelchair, and helps him out with minor things. I really like that about her.

Anyway...


She was talking to a colleague of mine and she basically said, "Yeah, he would do anything for me and drop everything for me." The colleague told me after work today.


Obviously the comment bothered me and I plan on pulling away a bit. How much is too much? How should I play it?


Thanks guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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amazingswayze

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It seems like she has little respect for you. If I was you, I would be prepared to walk away, and keep distant. If you find that she starts coming back to you, you're doing well.

Honestly, just start giving less craps about her.
 

Poon King

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Who gives a sh!t? Just keep smashing her until its not fun anymore.

All women talk sh!t about the men they date. Sometimes its true and sometimes its not. Doesn't matter either way if you're getting what you want from her.

Men obsess over their women WAY too much. Women are only a SMALL part of your life. And if their not.. then you need to get a life.
 
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