"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question for your DJs

oscarxp25

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I started dating this girl recently. She is pretty cool though a bit attached. Whenever she comes over to my house she is always nice to my dad, who is in a wheelchair, and helps him out with minor things. I really like that about her.

Anyway...


She was talking to a colleague of mine and she basically said, "Yeah, he would do anything for me and drop everything for me." The colleague told me after work today.


Obviously the comment bothered me and I plan on pulling away a bit. How much is too much? How should I play it?


Thanks guys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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amazingswayze

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It seems like she has little respect for you. If I was you, I would be prepared to walk away, and keep distant. If you find that she starts coming back to you, you're doing well.

Honestly, just start giving less craps about her.
 

Poon King

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Who gives a sh!t? Just keep smashing her until its not fun anymore.

All women talk sh!t about the men they date. Sometimes its true and sometimes its not. Doesn't matter either way if you're getting what you want from her.

Men obsess over their women WAY too much. Women are only a SMALL part of your life. And if their not.. then you need to get a life.
 
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