"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Question for your DJs

oscarxp25

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I started dating this girl recently. She is pretty cool though a bit attached. Whenever she comes over to my house she is always nice to my dad, who is in a wheelchair, and helps him out with minor things. I really like that about her.

Anyway...


She was talking to a colleague of mine and she basically said, "Yeah, he would do anything for me and drop everything for me." The colleague told me after work today.


Obviously the comment bothered me and I plan on pulling away a bit. How much is too much? How should I play it?


Thanks guys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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amazingswayze

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It seems like she has little respect for you. If I was you, I would be prepared to walk away, and keep distant. If you find that she starts coming back to you, you're doing well.

Honestly, just start giving less craps about her.
 

Poon King

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Who gives a sh!t? Just keep smashing her until its not fun anymore.

All women talk sh!t about the men they date. Sometimes its true and sometimes its not. Doesn't matter either way if you're getting what you want from her.

Men obsess over their women WAY too much. Women are only a SMALL part of your life. And if their not.. then you need to get a life.
 
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