"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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question for you guys

crash11

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I was talking to a girl friend of mine and she said that I was a decent guy. I asked what is the difference between decent/nice guy and she said that the nice guy is the one to get walked all over on. What do you guys think?


Thanks in advanced.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You seem alright in that you haven't pissed her off but she doesn't know much about you and you haven't done enough for her for her to decide you are a 'nice guy.'
 

Walden

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It doesn't mean anything. Chicks say all manner o fstuff you can disregard fully 7/8ths of it and pretend you didn't hear the rest.
 
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