"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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question for you guys

crash11

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I was talking to a girl friend of mine and she said that I was a decent guy. I asked what is the difference between decent/nice guy and she said that the nice guy is the one to get walked all over on. What do you guys think?


Thanks in advanced.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

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You seem alright in that you haven't pissed her off but she doesn't know much about you and you haven't done enough for her for her to decide you are a 'nice guy.'
 

Walden

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It doesn't mean anything. Chicks say all manner o fstuff you can disregard fully 7/8ths of it and pretend you didn't hear the rest.
 
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