"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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raidersfan

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hey, Im currently in college. To make things quick and easy thiers this one girl iam pretty attracted to that goes to my school. She knows who i am through her friends. Ive probably only really said hi to once since school started. But the thing is i KNOW for a fact that she doesn't think very highly of me because her best friend went out with a friend of mine. supposedly he treated her like **** and the girl i like always was always telling her friend to dump him. I feel as though she thinks because were friends that were the same guy. how would i appoarch this situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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maybe he thought that the pros had something that would help him. like a love potion or something. You should just get to know her and change her impression of you then. If you are the real deal, you shouldnt have to worry
 

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she doesn't think very highly of me because her best friend went out with a friend of mine. supposedly he treated her like ****

You've got to be kidding me. If she doesn't think highly of you because of something your 'friend' did, then forget her bro, she's not worth the time or effort. That's just dumb and childish. You want nothing to do with a girl like that, trust me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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