"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey, Im currently in college. To make things quick and easy thiers this one girl iam pretty attracted to that goes to my school. She knows who i am through her friends. Ive probably only really said hi to once since school started. But the thing is i KNOW for a fact that she doesn't think very highly of me because her best friend went out with a friend of mine. supposedly he treated her like **** and the girl i like always was always telling her friend to dump him. I feel as though she thinks because were friends that were the same guy. how would i appoarch this situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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maybe he thought that the pros had something that would help him. like a love potion or something. You should just get to know her and change her impression of you then. If you are the real deal, you shouldnt have to worry
 
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she doesn't think very highly of me because her best friend went out with a friend of mine. supposedly he treated her like ****

You've got to be kidding me. If she doesn't think highly of you because of something your 'friend' did, then forget her bro, she's not worth the time or effort. That's just dumb and childish. You want nothing to do with a girl like that, trust me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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