"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PWJUGGERNAUT

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been here for a while and learned more here than any where else when it comes the the oppsite sex. Thanks for you help in all areas!!!

My question: got involved with a girl who I really like and it was good. She started getting flakey and talking about being friends and how she couldnt trust me. So i told her cool go find a girl or a guy who wanted to be friends but not me and I bounced. Now she sends me texts and stupid fowards all the time because A) She wants to stay on my mind (which its working but I will never show it) B) Cause she has never had someone just leave like I did with out even flinching. C) Cause she really likes me to

Now what? Im not gonna lie I really do like the girl but Im not going to be in limbo. Do I bounce on and just move to the next poa or continue this for a bit and see what happens??

JUGGERNAUT
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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perhaps option d: she forwards her stuff to everyone in the phone book thing.
so everyone gets it.
just like junk email, people are now junk texting everyone they know.
 

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I thought the same thing but some of the messages are personal and I know there not forwards.
 

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Stupid **** like have a good day, got your christmas present, im sorry, look at my new tattoo, why are you ignoring me, blah-blah-blah-blah. You have to understand Im not responding to any of this texts and not surehow to handle this.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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well now that you put it like that, she is seeking attention.
is she an aw? i'm not sure, that's a tough one to answer on the internet.
you are going to have to decide if she's just an aw or if she is really interested in you.
 

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man my thoughts exactly!!! i thinks its both and im not sure how to proceed. but i know im not gonna chase her any and let it go until i get a better read of the situation at hand.

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Juggernaut
 
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