"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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been here for a while and learned more here than any where else when it comes the the oppsite sex. Thanks for you help in all areas!!!

My question: got involved with a girl who I really like and it was good. She started getting flakey and talking about being friends and how she couldnt trust me. So i told her cool go find a girl or a guy who wanted to be friends but not me and I bounced. Now she sends me texts and stupid fowards all the time because A) She wants to stay on my mind (which its working but I will never show it) B) Cause she has never had someone just leave like I did with out even flinching. C) Cause she really likes me to

Now what? Im not gonna lie I really do like the girl but Im not going to be in limbo. Do I bounce on and just move to the next poa or continue this for a bit and see what happens??

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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perhaps option d: she forwards her stuff to everyone in the phone book thing.
so everyone gets it.
just like junk email, people are now junk texting everyone they know.
 
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I thought the same thing but some of the messages are personal and I know there not forwards.
 
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Stupid **** like have a good day, got your christmas present, im sorry, look at my new tattoo, why are you ignoring me, blah-blah-blah-blah. You have to understand Im not responding to any of this texts and not surehow to handle this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well now that you put it like that, she is seeking attention.
is she an aw? i'm not sure, that's a tough one to answer on the internet.
you are going to have to decide if she's just an aw or if she is really interested in you.
 
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man my thoughts exactly!!! i thinks its both and im not sure how to proceed. but i know im not gonna chase her any and let it go until i get a better read of the situation at hand.

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