"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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been here for a while and learned more here than any where else when it comes the the oppsite sex. Thanks for you help in all areas!!!

My question: got involved with a girl who I really like and it was good. She started getting flakey and talking about being friends and how she couldnt trust me. So i told her cool go find a girl or a guy who wanted to be friends but not me and I bounced. Now she sends me texts and stupid fowards all the time because A) She wants to stay on my mind (which its working but I will never show it) B) Cause she has never had someone just leave like I did with out even flinching. C) Cause she really likes me to

Now what? Im not gonna lie I really do like the girl but Im not going to be in limbo. Do I bounce on and just move to the next poa or continue this for a bit and see what happens??

JUGGERNAUT
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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perhaps option d: she forwards her stuff to everyone in the phone book thing.
so everyone gets it.
just like junk email, people are now junk texting everyone they know.
 
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I thought the same thing but some of the messages are personal and I know there not forwards.
 
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Stupid **** like have a good day, got your christmas present, im sorry, look at my new tattoo, why are you ignoring me, blah-blah-blah-blah. You have to understand Im not responding to any of this texts and not surehow to handle this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well now that you put it like that, she is seeking attention.
is she an aw? i'm not sure, that's a tough one to answer on the internet.
you are going to have to decide if she's just an aw or if she is really interested in you.
 
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man my thoughts exactly!!! i thinks its both and im not sure how to proceed. but i know im not gonna chase her any and let it go until i get a better read of the situation at hand.

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Juggernaut
 
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