"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question for my fellow potheads

imarockstar

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Does anyone feel less horny when they are high. Like it just ruins your game around girls. I smoked with this girl last night whom I made out with when we were out drinking over the weekend. I had no problems flirting with the girl a couple nights ago, but when she comes over to smoke last night it's like the whole vibe is different. It was more like 2 friends hanging out. I just wanted to see what everyone's thoughts are, what experiences they've had. This is seriously making me consider quitting smoking pot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJCorleone

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yea man i mean i smoke with my current girl and it is like 2 friends hanging, however if you can drop a tiny bit of game in when your both baked, well sex high is awesome for both of us.
 

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Alcohol is a much better ice-breaker if you are just trying to get sex. I got laid in college off smoking, too, but always with girls who had already been drinking. Unless you and the girl both smoke very regularly, getting high without drinking will tend to make you paranoid and introverted.
 

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Yeah smoking doesn't help with meeting a girl but if I'm already with a girl and i smoke it doesn't really impact me negatively...but yeah i've been approached or checked out while high and i'm like "Whoa! A girl! Why is she looking at me??"
 

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Shouldn't affect me, it has but, I've blazed wit girls a lot but there. There's some extreme situations, once I didn't smoke for awhile and I smoked up on some really good ****, and I was just coming off a buzz from liquor when I smoked this really good stuff out of a one hitter. I was with a girl who I didn't really know long but she was really into me - got REALLY high.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Bible Belt hit the nail on the head.

I'll add you should never smoke before entering a bar or somewhere public, your eyes will look like marbles and then comes the "what if they know we're HIGH man?!" Plus, if the night is a dud, you have something to look forward to when you get home.
 

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Weed is good......but it will truly **** up your pimpin skills in every single way possible, plus all the stoner girs are haggard as shiiit
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Alcohol is a much better ice-breaker if you are just trying to get sex. I got laid in college off smoking, too, but always with girls who had already been drinking. Unless you and the girl both smoke very regularly, getting high without drinking will tend to make you paranoid and introverted.

This. These days it makes me so paranoid and in my head its just no fun any more. Although its great on a sunday morning when I'm alone and working on my artwork or music. I can't be social on it and feel awkward.
 

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I still think if you're already with the girl and she's into you and you don't plan on going anywhere it's not a bad idea but definitely don't get too high and definitely don't smoke if you plan on going out
 

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Pot makes me too quite and introverted as BB stated. Honestly, if you're looking for drugs that make you better socially or with woman I would say alcohol or ecstasy is the way to go. Although I don't condone the use of drugs, anyone who's ever done E knows how you suddenly turn into a social butterfly. Pot just makes me lazy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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imarockstar

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cool looks like im not the only one who feels this way. i actually turned it down the other night before me and some people went up to the club. the rough chicks were smoking just to smoke, and the guys trying to look cool did too. guess who had the hott girls tongue down his throat later that evening, while the afcs just sat there looking retarded void of any personality, and honestly just looked like followers. but yeah, its probably better i only smoke with girls whom im friends with and not really trying to game. at least not in the first few interactions i have with her.
 

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San Jose California said:
You obviously haven't tried acid. Acid makes you social for the next few MONTHS, and it doesn't fvuck you up like ecstasy.
Are you trying to tell me Ecstasy fvcks you up and Acid is perfectly harmless?
 
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