"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question for my fellow potheads

imarockstar

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Does anyone feel less horny when they are high. Like it just ruins your game around girls. I smoked with this girl last night whom I made out with when we were out drinking over the weekend. I had no problems flirting with the girl a couple nights ago, but when she comes over to smoke last night it's like the whole vibe is different. It was more like 2 friends hanging out. I just wanted to see what everyone's thoughts are, what experiences they've had. This is seriously making me consider quitting smoking pot.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJCorleone

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yea man i mean i smoke with my current girl and it is like 2 friends hanging, however if you can drop a tiny bit of game in when your both baked, well sex high is awesome for both of us.
 

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Alcohol is a much better ice-breaker if you are just trying to get sex. I got laid in college off smoking, too, but always with girls who had already been drinking. Unless you and the girl both smoke very regularly, getting high without drinking will tend to make you paranoid and introverted.
 

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Yeah smoking doesn't help with meeting a girl but if I'm already with a girl and i smoke it doesn't really impact me negatively...but yeah i've been approached or checked out while high and i'm like "Whoa! A girl! Why is she looking at me??"
 

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Shouldn't affect me, it has but, I've blazed wit girls a lot but there. There's some extreme situations, once I didn't smoke for awhile and I smoked up on some really good ****, and I was just coming off a buzz from liquor when I smoked this really good stuff out of a one hitter. I was with a girl who I didn't really know long but she was really into me - got REALLY high.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bible Belt hit the nail on the head.

I'll add you should never smoke before entering a bar or somewhere public, your eyes will look like marbles and then comes the "what if they know we're HIGH man?!" Plus, if the night is a dud, you have something to look forward to when you get home.
 

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Weed is good......but it will truly **** up your pimpin skills in every single way possible, plus all the stoner girs are haggard as shiiit
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Alcohol is a much better ice-breaker if you are just trying to get sex. I got laid in college off smoking, too, but always with girls who had already been drinking. Unless you and the girl both smoke very regularly, getting high without drinking will tend to make you paranoid and introverted.

This. These days it makes me so paranoid and in my head its just no fun any more. Although its great on a sunday morning when I'm alone and working on my artwork or music. I can't be social on it and feel awkward.
 

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I still think if you're already with the girl and she's into you and you don't plan on going anywhere it's not a bad idea but definitely don't get too high and definitely don't smoke if you plan on going out
 

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Pot makes me too quite and introverted as BB stated. Honestly, if you're looking for drugs that make you better socially or with woman I would say alcohol or ecstasy is the way to go. Although I don't condone the use of drugs, anyone who's ever done E knows how you suddenly turn into a social butterfly. Pot just makes me lazy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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imarockstar

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cool looks like im not the only one who feels this way. i actually turned it down the other night before me and some people went up to the club. the rough chicks were smoking just to smoke, and the guys trying to look cool did too. guess who had the hott girls tongue down his throat later that evening, while the afcs just sat there looking retarded void of any personality, and honestly just looked like followers. but yeah, its probably better i only smoke with girls whom im friends with and not really trying to game. at least not in the first few interactions i have with her.
 

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San Jose California said:
You obviously haven't tried acid. Acid makes you social for the next few MONTHS, and it doesn't fvuck you up like ecstasy.
Are you trying to tell me Ecstasy fvcks you up and Acid is perfectly harmless?
 
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