Question for men without cars, how do you date girls? Does she ever drive you?

[holidayad_]

This is over level 9000 simping

Don't think so. Never needed to rent one, but I believe that it helps a lot in terms of logistics - depending on where you live.

 

[NealIRC]

That’s why I asked him what city and why he doesn’t have a car. if he’s too poor to afford a car, I would advise him to work on that before he considers dating.

Somehow, I'd rather save money on housing or condos? Is that better?

 

[BMX]

Best Denzel impression ever - YouTube

You do it EXACTLY like this. No deviating from the original standard...

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Second, do you know how many cold approach opportunities are out there when you use public transit?

Too damn many.

Before I got my motorcycle in 2019 (it got stolen in 2020), I had to take 2 buses and the light rail to work...and all of the eye candy I saw, and women I encountered from them days....it was just a joy to go to work every day.

PARTAY ON THE DEEETROIT BUS LINE!!!!!

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Sounds like the moral of the story is.

Or the consensus is...

You need a car to date Republican girls.

And not all girls are Republican girls.

Yep, that's what I got out of it lol.

In theory yes. But most girls on trains/buses are occupied on their phones.

True. Take a chance on some of those as well.

It's the train stations and bus stops where you can sometimes do PUA.

Well, since you already know what's going on, you should be out there handling business.

Sometimes if a girl notices you, from riding the same bus every day, she may try to sit where you normally sat (if she gets on before you).

Even if she doesn't..believe in yourself and APPROACH her.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

PARTAY ON THE DEEETROIT BUS LINE!!!!!

And the after PARTAY is at the hotel.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

And the after PARTAY is at the hotel.

 

[SW15]

You're paying for the date, no? And Chicago's huge like Dallas. Can you imagine Ubering or taking the bus to Fort Worth from University Park?

The distance between Fort Worth and central-ish Dallas areas (University Park, Highland Park, Uptown/Downtown Dallas, etc) is too long of a distance to sustainably date. It's possible for a resident of a central-ish area in Dallas to have a plate in Fort Worth under some unusual circumstances, such as an existing Dallas plate moves to Fort Worth, but that's not going to be a close relationship. Even scheduling one date on a weeknight between a Dallas person and a Fort Worth person would be a very difficult exercise.

This is even worse is someone lives in a northern suburb of Dallas (Plano, Frisco, McKinney, Allen) and tries to date someone over in Fort Worth.

Non-sexual friendships between Dallas residents and Fort Worth residents are difficult. That's mainly weekend visits. It is even possible for unfavorable traffic late morning to mid-afternoon on a weekend.

The scenes are separate.

With in-person approaching, it's highly unlikely a Dallas person ends up approaching a Fort Worth person. There may be accidental contact on swipe apps between the two if someone didn't set their geolocation distance correctly.

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unless you're going to prom, most dates you meet the person at a location rather than pick them up lol

Most first or second dates involve two people meeting at some public place. This is true if the date was arranged from some in-person method or some tech-based method.

 

[Snag87]

Chicago.

Can't see not having a car as an issue in Chicago proper. Suburbs, sure.