"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Question for guys who wear glasses and contacts

Slickster

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Hey guys,

Just a random question here.

Do you guys notice a definite difference in the attention/reactions you get from women while wearing your glasses vs. your contact lenses?

Also, do you notice that while wearing glasses certain demographics of women treat you differently. (ie. young vs. old, educated vs non. etc.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I typically only wear my glasses at work, but I don't notice much of a difference. The only time I get much of a reaction is when I wear them around people that didn't know I had glasses.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
I typically only wear my glasses at work, but I don't notice much of a difference. The only time I get much of a reaction is when I wear them around people that didn't know I had glasses.
This, when I see someone wearing glasses forever it becomes a part of their face, and you just expect it everytime. However if they switch from one to another that's when I notice.
 
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