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Question for guys who wear glasses and contacts

Slickster

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Hey guys,

Just a random question here.

Do you guys notice a definite difference in the attention/reactions you get from women while wearing your glasses vs. your contact lenses?

Also, do you notice that while wearing glasses certain demographics of women treat you differently. (ie. young vs. old, educated vs non. etc.)
 

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I typically only wear my glasses at work, but I don't notice much of a difference. The only time I get much of a reaction is when I wear them around people that didn't know I had glasses.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
I typically only wear my glasses at work, but I don't notice much of a difference. The only time I get much of a reaction is when I wear them around people that didn't know I had glasses.
This, when I see someone wearing glasses forever it becomes a part of their face, and you just expect it everytime. However if they switch from one to another that's when I notice.
 
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