"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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coolguy676767

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I have been on this site for a few months, and although some of this info is in the bible I wanted to ask a large high school aged audience their opinion

I would say that I do better with woman, and am a little better looking, than the average male, but I want to be much better, true DJ style. So I just wanted some opinions on how to judge girl's interest level. Because lately I feel like I am sensing very stong interest from some girls lately, but many of them I have to call first, or instant message first, if were in purpose I dont always have to, but more often than not I initiate the conversation with them too when were in class or something. After I talk to them they seem to show a high interest level, but its hard to tell sometimes considering I always have to call them or instant message them. Plus I am a pretty good conversationalist I am told, but if I dont keep the conversation going than it seems to die out pretty quickly, and occasionally I run into girls that seem to have a high interest level in all areas, but on certain occasions I may ask them a question that is normally recripocal, like "how was your weekend", but once in a while they wont even ask back.

So I just wanted to know what your experiences are. If the girls are *****es, I dont want to date them, but if they still have a high interest level, maybe a one night stand is more appropriate, if they are interested but just not very personable. Or is this just what you have experienced to be common?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Absolute jokes.

Dont worry about them and gauging their interest level, this question is so commonly asked, that a common search will turn up all the answers that you need. Much more importantly, girls expect the guy to do the initiating. I know it is a pain, but it is how they are normalised by society. In several cultures, especially Western high schools with their unified values, it is accepted that the guy has to ask out the girl.

Good Luck.
 

coolguy676767

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I dont mind asking the girl out like on a date, its just so boring to have to initiate most of the conversations and be the one that most of the time, not always but most of the time keeps the conversation flowing.
 

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Get used to it, because so many girls are AFCs.... it's really sad and annoying after awhile. So when you find one that isn't an AFC, your gonna have alot more fun. Trust me on that.
 
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