"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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coolguy676767

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I have been on this site for a few months, and although some of this info is in the bible I wanted to ask a large high school aged audience their opinion

I would say that I do better with woman, and am a little better looking, than the average male, but I want to be much better, true DJ style. So I just wanted some opinions on how to judge girl's interest level. Because lately I feel like I am sensing very stong interest from some girls lately, but many of them I have to call first, or instant message first, if were in purpose I dont always have to, but more often than not I initiate the conversation with them too when were in class or something. After I talk to them they seem to show a high interest level, but its hard to tell sometimes considering I always have to call them or instant message them. Plus I am a pretty good conversationalist I am told, but if I dont keep the conversation going than it seems to die out pretty quickly, and occasionally I run into girls that seem to have a high interest level in all areas, but on certain occasions I may ask them a question that is normally recripocal, like "how was your weekend", but once in a while they wont even ask back.

So I just wanted to know what your experiences are. If the girls are *****es, I dont want to date them, but if they still have a high interest level, maybe a one night stand is more appropriate, if they are interested but just not very personable. Or is this just what you have experienced to be common?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Absolute jokes.

Dont worry about them and gauging their interest level, this question is so commonly asked, that a common search will turn up all the answers that you need. Much more importantly, girls expect the guy to do the initiating. I know it is a pain, but it is how they are normalised by society. In several cultures, especially Western high schools with their unified values, it is accepted that the guy has to ask out the girl.

Good Luck.
 

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I dont mind asking the girl out like on a date, its just so boring to have to initiate most of the conversations and be the one that most of the time, not always but most of the time keeps the conversation flowing.
 

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Get used to it, because so many girls are AFCs.... it's really sad and annoying after awhile. So when you find one that isn't an AFC, your gonna have alot more fun. Trust me on that.
 
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