Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Question for attractive guys

ChrisFloyd

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Let's say you are a reasonably attractive male, and you can easily get attention from females in most social situations.

However, in a particular situation, for some reasons, you just cannot compete with another man for a specific woman's attention or affection. It's not like you are really attracted to that woman or something. It's just the feeling like you've just lost a battle, and it is really uncomfortable at that moment. Especially when you know that you and the other man are more or less equal in level of attractiveness.

Is this a particular problem that good looking people have to experience?
Is it the same thing attractive women get when we play games on them?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Imdonswanson

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I speculate that it's a problem all people face, more attractive people face this less than others (unless they're complete douchebags and b1tches). Everyone is different and what other women find attractive in you I.e, physically and how you approach them, might not work for other women for whatever reason.
 

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Just because you are attractive to some or most women does not mean you will be attractive to all women. I wouldn't take it personally. Use that motivation to go out and find more girls.
 
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