"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Question for attractive guys

ChrisFloyd

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Let's say you are a reasonably attractive male, and you can easily get attention from females in most social situations.

However, in a particular situation, for some reasons, you just cannot compete with another man for a specific woman's attention or affection. It's not like you are really attracted to that woman or something. It's just the feeling like you've just lost a battle, and it is really uncomfortable at that moment. Especially when you know that you and the other man are more or less equal in level of attractiveness.

Is this a particular problem that good looking people have to experience?
Is it the same thing attractive women get when we play games on them?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Imdonswanson

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I speculate that it's a problem all people face, more attractive people face this less than others (unless they're complete douchebags and b1tches). Everyone is different and what other women find attractive in you I.e, physically and how you approach them, might not work for other women for whatever reason.
 

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Just because you are attractive to some or most women does not mean you will be attractive to all women. I wouldn't take it personally. Use that motivation to go out and find more girls.
 
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