"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question: Do you think money, fame, status, lots of hb10 would make you happier?

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Most people are so involved in ego games that they simply can't see the real truth about things.

Most valuable things like money, status, looks and so on make your life easy and give you some kind of freedom but the real problem with all of us is what we do with our time on this earth?

So we unconsciously follow our parents and other people without questioning anything. And that's not a bad thing but we are just doing it subconsciously. That's it.

So when most people meet someone who doesn't value what they value they think he is insane. The problem is that w most people don't accept the differences between them and someone else because when they meet someone who doesn't value what they value and chase their entire lives they start questioning their life decisions and the path it takes.

It's when a the so called nice guy discover that the girl of his dreams is just a dirty bítch and give what she withhold from him to others just like that like attention, validation, sex, recognition..etc. So he start questioning what he thinks and believes and that turn his world upside down when he realize that what he has been believing his entire life is simply and illusion or utter búllshìt.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BraddH said:
I wonder if anyone else feels that Joseph is contradicting himself too much here.
I dont get it, you say that you are happy with where you are now and then you say that there is no reason to be happy as you are.
He's saying he's happy but there's room for improvement, basically
 

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om1xr said:
Most people are so involved in ego games that they simply can't see the real truth about things.

Most valuable things like money, status, looks and so on make your life easy and give you some kind of freedom but the real problem with all of us is what we do with our time on this earth?

So we unconsciously follow our parents and other people without questioning anything. And that's not a bad thing but we are just doing it subconsciously. That's it.

So when most people meet someone who doesn't value what they value they think he is insane. The problem is that w most people don't accept the differences between them and someone else because when they meet someone who doesn't value what they value and chase their entire lives they start questioning their life decisions and the path it takes.

It's when a the so called nice guy discover that the girl of his dreams is just a dirty bítch and give what she withhold from him to others just like that like attention, validation, sex, recognition..etc. So he start questioning what he thinks and believes and that turn his world upside down when he realize that what he has been believing his entire life is simply and illusion or utter búllshìt.

I still want to skype with you. I believe that life is very balanced. No matter what you do, you will get as much good as bad. And I dont say it based on someone else saying it like Buddha. It is based on my own experience. In fact, saying that i believe it is wrong. It is my experience!

For example, when i stop desiring anything, my life is very free and I have no misery, frustation or anything negative emotions. But at the same time, I dont feel joy or happiness. Or the feeling of getting your desire fulfilled. Do you get me?
 

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Infern0 said:
He's saying he's happy but there's room for improvement, basically
I think he is just lost, doesnt know what he is saying. Why would you be happy like you are but still not enough happy that you need to become better and more?
 

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Of course it would. To say it wouldn't is almost a resignation that it will never happen.

A man is supposed to ultimately extract as many resources from the world as possible and share them as efficiently as possible. Indeed, doing so makes him happy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigneil said:
Of course it would. To say it wouldn't is almost a resignation that it will never happen.

A man is supposed to ultimately extract as many resources from the world as possible and share them as efficiently as possible. Indeed, doing so makes him happy.
And if he fails? He will be sad, mad, frustated.

I know I know, he will get up and do it again as many times as he can.

Just keep in mind that if he didn't have that huge ego, he would have saved himself from so many miseries, and frustations.
 

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He can't fail at being generous.

Either way, the fat girl gets nothing.
 
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