"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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question -- bulk up or cut

Kingz28

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Im 6`3 and like 210 pounds.. I'm a bit what I heard someone on the board say skinny fat. I'm not a fat kid, but my gut and man boobs have a little extra jello than I want right now. My question is, should I follow a cutting program to get rid of the fat and then bulk up? Or should I just start eating alot of good food, and lift alot, along with creatine or something, then cut when I'm done. I figure summers almost over and I probably wouldn't even see much change by the time its over so I should just start bulking up. any ideas
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marqZAL

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If you have gut start cutting. You look better.
 

Kingz28

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I have a slight gut but its fairly flat, it doesn't like hang over my pants from a side view
 
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