"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question bout virgin?

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if i get a date with this girl this weekend (4th date). If i get her to my place somehow, or her place - either one, should i try anythng besides makign out and groping? She's a virgin so i dunno what the typical thing to do is. She has made it clear shes waiting for marriage, but she said she does "alot of other things". i didnt ask what things, but i assume what a few of them are.

So my question is, when im making out with her, since shes a virgin, do i let her inititate with the salami action, or do i have to initiate with that stuff, meanign should i feel her up and try to finger her or something, hoping shell reciprocate? Not used to virgins. Most virgins i met are complete virigins, like they wouldnt do anythin at all! This one has made it clear shes seen plenty of salamis, and does stuff with em. Shes very religious, some new age chrisitan thing actually, so i dunno is 4 dates too soon for a girl like that? What do i do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dirty_Mami said:
make sure you do it anally also without any lubrication, it might hurt the first time but aftera while it will be smooth sailing. But try touching her, feel her hair and stuff and see how she likes it. Your soo cute.
Thats the 2nd time you called me cute. Huh. Is that supposed to be funny?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Waiting for marriage? Personally I think your just gonna have to wait. When you do ask create the perfect atmosphere, Good lighting a few slow jamz on the CD player etc. If she is a virgin she will want her first time to be special so you will need a lot of preparation to make everything right to improve your chances. Make her feel wanted and cared for but for ****s sake dont tell her you love her. If you do succeed dont go for rough sex there will be plenty of time for that later. Her first time needs to be slow and loving id recommend using a position that leaves one hand free to stroke her ****oris as this will definitely improve her experience, and dont ask for head once again you can do that later but remember the first time is about her. If you play it just right she will be crazy about you.
 

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So any suggestions on what to do with this girl if we happen to end up on a couch making out? Since she has made it clear she wont have sex till marriage but does do other sutff, im at least hoping to get some bj's outta the deal. How do i get this to happen? Will she do it when shes ready after enuff makin out and groping? or do i flat out ask her too? Ive never asked before, usually girls ive gone out with just do it on their own. I intend on doin the usual blowing on the neck, boob grab, leg rub, etc. etc. Should i just do that and see where it gets me? Or do i have to take affirmitive action and start feelin her up and crap.
 

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Zebedee said:
Waiting for marriage? Personally I think your just gonna have to wait. When you do ask create the perfect atmosphere, Good lighting a few slow jamz on the CD player etc. If she is a virgin she will want her first time to be special so you will need a lot of preparation to make everything right to improve your chances. Make her feel wanted and cared for but for ****s sake dont tell her you love her. If you do succeed dont go for rough sex there will be plenty of time for that later. Her first time needs to be slow and loving id recommend using a position that leaves one hand free to stroke her **** as this will definitely improve her experience, and dont ask for head once again you can do that later but remember the first time is about her. If you play it just right she will be crazy about you.

Oh no no im not tryin to get sex out of this, she said shes waiting ill respect that, im just askin how to get a BJ or HJ out of this. Do i ask, feel her up in hopes she reciprocates, or do i just be gentle and make out with her and stuff and wait for her to play with Kielbasa.
 

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Its difficult to ask so make sure everything is perfect, wear cologne use breath mints use the right music a bit of Ne'Yo or Nice and Slow by Usher, be as romantic as possible gently kiss her neck this usually gets girls horny and stroke your hand down her side just avoiding her tit with the other hand caressing her thigh, After this give her a massage make sure you are firm and gentle I would recommend looking up massages on the web. This will either (A) get her to suggest something or (B) make her more likely to answer yes if you ask.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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