Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DJinTraining06

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if i get a date with this girl this weekend (4th date). If i get her to my place somehow, or her place - either one, should i try anythng besides makign out and groping? She's a virgin so i dunno what the typical thing to do is. She has made it clear shes waiting for marriage, but she said she does "alot of other things". i didnt ask what things, but i assume what a few of them are.

So my question is, when im making out with her, since shes a virgin, do i let her inititate with the salami action, or do i have to initiate with that stuff, meanign should i feel her up and try to finger her or something, hoping shell reciprocate? Not used to virgins. Most virgins i met are complete virigins, like they wouldnt do anythin at all! This one has made it clear shes seen plenty of salamis, and does stuff with em. Shes very religious, some new age chrisitan thing actually, so i dunno is 4 dates too soon for a girl like that? What do i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dirty_Mami said:
make sure you do it anally also without any lubrication, it might hurt the first time but aftera while it will be smooth sailing. But try touching her, feel her hair and stuff and see how she likes it. Your soo cute.
Thats the 2nd time you called me cute. Huh. Is that supposed to be funny?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Waiting for marriage? Personally I think your just gonna have to wait. When you do ask create the perfect atmosphere, Good lighting a few slow jamz on the CD player etc. If she is a virgin she will want her first time to be special so you will need a lot of preparation to make everything right to improve your chances. Make her feel wanted and cared for but for ****s sake dont tell her you love her. If you do succeed dont go for rough sex there will be plenty of time for that later. Her first time needs to be slow and loving id recommend using a position that leaves one hand free to stroke her ****oris as this will definitely improve her experience, and dont ask for head once again you can do that later but remember the first time is about her. If you play it just right she will be crazy about you.
 

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So any suggestions on what to do with this girl if we happen to end up on a couch making out? Since she has made it clear she wont have sex till marriage but does do other sutff, im at least hoping to get some bj's outta the deal. How do i get this to happen? Will she do it when shes ready after enuff makin out and groping? or do i flat out ask her too? Ive never asked before, usually girls ive gone out with just do it on their own. I intend on doin the usual blowing on the neck, boob grab, leg rub, etc. etc. Should i just do that and see where it gets me? Or do i have to take affirmitive action and start feelin her up and crap.
 

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Zebedee said:
Waiting for marriage? Personally I think your just gonna have to wait. When you do ask create the perfect atmosphere, Good lighting a few slow jamz on the CD player etc. If she is a virgin she will want her first time to be special so you will need a lot of preparation to make everything right to improve your chances. Make her feel wanted and cared for but for ****s sake dont tell her you love her. If you do succeed dont go for rough sex there will be plenty of time for that later. Her first time needs to be slow and loving id recommend using a position that leaves one hand free to stroke her **** as this will definitely improve her experience, and dont ask for head once again you can do that later but remember the first time is about her. If you play it just right she will be crazy about you.

Oh no no im not tryin to get sex out of this, she said shes waiting ill respect that, im just askin how to get a BJ or HJ out of this. Do i ask, feel her up in hopes she reciprocates, or do i just be gentle and make out with her and stuff and wait for her to play with Kielbasa.
 

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Its difficult to ask so make sure everything is perfect, wear cologne use breath mints use the right music a bit of Ne'Yo or Nice and Slow by Usher, be as romantic as possible gently kiss her neck this usually gets girls horny and stroke your hand down her side just avoiding her tit with the other hand caressing her thigh, After this give her a massage make sure you are firm and gentle I would recommend looking up massages on the web. This will either (A) get her to suggest something or (B) make her more likely to answer yes if you ask.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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