"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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if i get a date with this girl this weekend (4th date). If i get her to my place somehow, or her place - either one, should i try anythng besides makign out and groping? She's a virgin so i dunno what the typical thing to do is. She has made it clear shes waiting for marriage, but she said she does "alot of other things". i didnt ask what things, but i assume what a few of them are.

So my question is, when im making out with her, since shes a virgin, do i let her inititate with the salami action, or do i have to initiate with that stuff, meanign should i feel her up and try to finger her or something, hoping shell reciprocate? Not used to virgins. Most virgins i met are complete virigins, like they wouldnt do anythin at all! This one has made it clear shes seen plenty of salamis, and does stuff with em. Shes very religious, some new age chrisitan thing actually, so i dunno is 4 dates too soon for a girl like that? What do i do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dirty_Mami said:
make sure you do it anally also without any lubrication, it might hurt the first time but aftera while it will be smooth sailing. But try touching her, feel her hair and stuff and see how she likes it. Your soo cute.
Thats the 2nd time you called me cute. Huh. Is that supposed to be funny?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Waiting for marriage? Personally I think your just gonna have to wait. When you do ask create the perfect atmosphere, Good lighting a few slow jamz on the CD player etc. If she is a virgin she will want her first time to be special so you will need a lot of preparation to make everything right to improve your chances. Make her feel wanted and cared for but for ****s sake dont tell her you love her. If you do succeed dont go for rough sex there will be plenty of time for that later. Her first time needs to be slow and loving id recommend using a position that leaves one hand free to stroke her ****oris as this will definitely improve her experience, and dont ask for head once again you can do that later but remember the first time is about her. If you play it just right she will be crazy about you.
 

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So any suggestions on what to do with this girl if we happen to end up on a couch making out? Since she has made it clear she wont have sex till marriage but does do other sutff, im at least hoping to get some bj's outta the deal. How do i get this to happen? Will she do it when shes ready after enuff makin out and groping? or do i flat out ask her too? Ive never asked before, usually girls ive gone out with just do it on their own. I intend on doin the usual blowing on the neck, boob grab, leg rub, etc. etc. Should i just do that and see where it gets me? Or do i have to take affirmitive action and start feelin her up and crap.
 

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Zebedee said:
Waiting for marriage? Personally I think your just gonna have to wait. When you do ask create the perfect atmosphere, Good lighting a few slow jamz on the CD player etc. If she is a virgin she will want her first time to be special so you will need a lot of preparation to make everything right to improve your chances. Make her feel wanted and cared for but for ****s sake dont tell her you love her. If you do succeed dont go for rough sex there will be plenty of time for that later. Her first time needs to be slow and loving id recommend using a position that leaves one hand free to stroke her **** as this will definitely improve her experience, and dont ask for head once again you can do that later but remember the first time is about her. If you play it just right she will be crazy about you.

Oh no no im not tryin to get sex out of this, she said shes waiting ill respect that, im just askin how to get a BJ or HJ out of this. Do i ask, feel her up in hopes she reciprocates, or do i just be gentle and make out with her and stuff and wait for her to play with Kielbasa.
 

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Its difficult to ask so make sure everything is perfect, wear cologne use breath mints use the right music a bit of Ne'Yo or Nice and Slow by Usher, be as romantic as possible gently kiss her neck this usually gets girls horny and stroke your hand down her side just avoiding her tit with the other hand caressing her thigh, After this give her a massage make sure you are firm and gentle I would recommend looking up massages on the web. This will either (A) get her to suggest something or (B) make her more likely to answer yes if you ask.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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