"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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heCtIc1

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-you should make a Q n A forum for technical stuff, and Q's concerning this board.. not related to dating and stuff..
-also is it possible for me to become a mod of a forum(s)?.. i have previous mod experience on a bb, and vb board..and have many years of board experience..(rap boards)



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AnY oPiNiOnZ eXpReSsEd bY heCtIc1 aRe cOpY rIgHtEd. aNd wILL rEsUlT iN iNtErNaL cOmBuStIoN iF cOnSuMeD..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sociopath31

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To be a mod, you have to be around for a while, give sound advice, be mature, and type without random cApItOlIzAtIoNs.
 

heCtIc1

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lol. i only did the caption thing for my sig, but i will be around until my comp or the site fails, because i am just trying to be a DJ, ya know. i am very responsible, im on the net atleast once a day, and like ive said i have previous mod experience. but about that sound advice, well i give advice in what i know, what i dont know i ask for advice. please reply

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heCtIc1

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lol. i only did the caption thing for my sig, but i will be around until my comp or the site fails, because i am just trying to be a DJ, ya know. i am very responsible, im on the net atleast once a day, and like ive said i have previous mod experience. but about that sound advice, well i give advice in what i know, what i dont know i ask for advice. please reply

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no double posting allowed either!


j/k
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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