"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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-you should make a Q n A forum for technical stuff, and Q's concerning this board.. not related to dating and stuff..
-also is it possible for me to become a mod of a forum(s)?.. i have previous mod experience on a bb, and vb board..and have many years of board experience..(rap boards)



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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To be a mod, you have to be around for a while, give sound advice, be mature, and type without random cApItOlIzAtIoNs.
 
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lol. i only did the caption thing for my sig, but i will be around until my comp or the site fails, because i am just trying to be a DJ, ya know. i am very responsible, im on the net atleast once a day, and like ive said i have previous mod experience. but about that sound advice, well i give advice in what i know, what i dont know i ask for advice. please reply

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lol. i only did the caption thing for my sig, but i will be around until my comp or the site fails, because i am just trying to be a DJ, ya know. i am very responsible, im on the net atleast once a day, and like ive said i have previous mod experience. but about that sound advice, well i give advice in what i know, what i dont know i ask for advice. please reply

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no double posting allowed either!


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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