"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Question and request for advice

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Hey guys, just found the forums. Nice site.

I've liked this chick for about (atleast) 2 years. We talk on and off, and see each other occasionally (she goes to a dif. HS than me). I'd like to start trying to move into the direction of dating, and such. However, about 1.5 years ago, she said I'm not really her type. Should I be staying around and trying to hook up with her?

We jsut went out to Homecoming, and afterwards I went in for a kiss, and, I was way off (far side of the cheek), and am stsill trying to decide if she moved really fast to avoid it, or I moved too fast (first time trying to do it, REALLY awkward) "going in".

I'm an awkward guy around chicks, well, atleast the ones I am attracted to. I'm kinda nerdy (if ya needed to know).

She's always been really nice to me (one of the few girls I've known that are).

If you need to know anything else, just lemme know, and I'll post it asap.


Also - she said she had a massive headache during the dance... Should I assume it was a headache, or should I be sorta thinkin that she wasn't really into it that night? She was coming off some sort of cold... She danced fine tho... I think it was an actual headache, but it coulda been faked... I dunno. SOrry if that was rambling.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you should read anti dumps posts on the machine for filtering out women by interest level and other stuff(go read) to finally find your ideal partner.. you are obviously looking for something thats lasting i can see... so i think that system will work for you.. print it out and give it a shot.

its near the bottom of the DJ bible.
 
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She's uninterested. You need to find a nerdy girl to bang or read this site better and practice self improvement. Take off the glasses and hit the weights. If it doesn't work get a friend with a good personality and humor and take down notes man because you're clingy, unexperianced, and unattractive (at least to the point of sexual attraction). Don't waste your life wishing you were something else, become it and live up to your full potential.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sorry Guys

Guys, I'd like to apologize one final time before I make the transition. I doubted you guys, and you all turned out to be correct. sorry for that. this website is a great tool to all. i shall use it to transform myself into a... don juan:-d thanks guys. you've already helped me innumerably.
 
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