"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question about women leaving clothes at your house.

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I had this girl over last week whom is moving away in like 3 months but we've always had a thing. She slept over with me like 2 weeks ago and left her jeans here. Now she messaged me today to come pick them up because I blew her off last night and didn't invite her to come out with me so I figure she is just using that as a way to engage conversation or see me whenever she wants.

My question is, should I let her come and pick them up today or blow her off? I want to pursue something with her, so maybe if I let her come by and pick them up should I just alpha it and try to hook up with her when she comes? Maybe someone with more experience with these kinds of women can help me out, haha.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ty1986 said:
I had this girl over last week whom is moving away in like 3 months but we've always had a thing. She slept over with me like 2 weeks ago and left her jeans here. Now she messaged me today to come pick them up because I blew her off last night and didn't invite her to come out with me so I figure she is just using that as a way to engage conversation or see me whenever she wants.

My question is, should I let her come and pick them up today or blow her off? I want to pursue something with her, so maybe if I let her come by and pick them up should I just alpha it and try to hook up with her when she comes? Maybe someone with more experience with these kinds of women can help me out, haha.
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did you sniff them? be honest :whistle:
 
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It gives her a reason to have to come back to your place. Sleep with her again.
 
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She left her jeans at your house??? She walked out in just her panties? Tell us more.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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theunflushables said:
It gives her a reason to have to come back to your place. Sleep with her again.
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This is your answer.

Also if a chick who you never want to see again tries this you need to make sure that she takes all her sh!t with her when she leaves or you go and drop off her sh!t at her front door so she doesn't get the satisfaction of having a little token for you to remember her by or a reason to contact you again.
 
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KontrollerX said:
This is your answer.

Also if a chick who you never want to see again tries this you need to make sure that she takes all her sh!t with her when she leaves or you go and drop off her sh!t at her front door so she doesn't get the satisfaction of having a little token for you to remember her by or a reason to contact you again.
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was i too late to the party or what?
everyone else said what i was gonna...
 
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