"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Question about women leaving clothes at your house.

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I had this girl over last week whom is moving away in like 3 months but we've always had a thing. She slept over with me like 2 weeks ago and left her jeans here. Now she messaged me today to come pick them up because I blew her off last night and didn't invite her to come out with me so I figure she is just using that as a way to engage conversation or see me whenever she wants.

My question is, should I let her come and pick them up today or blow her off? I want to pursue something with her, so maybe if I let her come by and pick them up should I just alpha it and try to hook up with her when she comes? Maybe someone with more experience with these kinds of women can help me out, haha.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cry For Love

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ty1986 said:
I had this girl over last week whom is moving away in like 3 months but we've always had a thing. She slept over with me like 2 weeks ago and left her jeans here. Now she messaged me today to come pick them up because I blew her off last night and didn't invite her to come out with me so I figure she is just using that as a way to engage conversation or see me whenever she wants.

My question is, should I let her come and pick them up today or blow her off? I want to pursue something with her, so maybe if I let her come by and pick them up should I just alpha it and try to hook up with her when she comes? Maybe someone with more experience with these kinds of women can help me out, haha.
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did you sniff them? be honest :whistle:
 
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It gives her a reason to have to come back to your place. Sleep with her again.
 
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She left her jeans at your house??? She walked out in just her panties? Tell us more.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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theunflushables said:
It gives her a reason to have to come back to your place. Sleep with her again.
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This is your answer.

Also if a chick who you never want to see again tries this you need to make sure that she takes all her sh!t with her when she leaves or you go and drop off her sh!t at her front door so she doesn't get the satisfaction of having a little token for you to remember her by or a reason to contact you again.
 
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KontrollerX said:
This is your answer.

Also if a chick who you never want to see again tries this you need to make sure that she takes all her sh!t with her when she leaves or you go and drop off her sh!t at her front door so she doesn't get the satisfaction of having a little token for you to remember her by or a reason to contact you again.
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was i too late to the party or what?
everyone else said what i was gonna...
 
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